Do you ever spill something and give yourself harsh words?
Perhaps you start this name-calling on yourself, for example, “OMG! How could I have been so careless?” or You Idiot! why did you do that? Would you talk to your best friend that way? Probably not. Your Best Friend is yourself…Learn to get along.
We all do it, all the time and it is such a bad habit. There are times we don’t even realize we have trash-talked ourselves. We would probably forgive someone else, like a guest in our home before we forgive ourselves.
We forget that we are like children, we too as adults are a product of our environment. As the old saying goes, “Children learn what they live”, or perhaps this one, “you are a product of your environment” or “you are what you think you are”….these are all relevant and here is my why.
Our environment, is our Feng Shui, it is where we live and learn.
When you constantly bad mouth someone, yourself included, eventually you start to believe it and there goes your self-confidence.
So it’s time to start being a friend to ourselves first and stop the bad self-talk.
First, you must forgive yourself, if you spill something or whatever it is you have done.
Don’t dwell on it.
Stop the ranting and bad self-talk/self-blame.
If you liked this article share it with a friend. If you Make Friends with Yourself you will never be alone. -Maxwell Maltz
Your Confidence and self-esteem will thank you.
Problem solved.
Your Best Friend is yourself, Learn to get along.
Much Love and light to you. & Happy FengShuiing!
Originally posted 2017-01-20 02:18:00.